Cottage Garden by the shed in the backyard

5 Quick Ways to Grow a Cottage Garden

When I started gardening over 25 years ago, I wanted a cottage garden that would continually bloom.

I started with a few annuals, then progressed to perennials, then tucked in a few bulbs, and eventually added some flowering shrubs and trees.

So my love for cottage-style gardening has been an evolution.

And it’s been a different experience every year because every season teaches me something new.

Last year, I closed out the season with a serious love for dahlias and gorgeous hibiscus flowers.

So I decided I want to add more flowers with cottage charm to the gardens this year.

Which got me thinking about gardening and ways to add cottage style to the beds.

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Lupines in the Cottage Garden
This year, I added lupines back in the garden. I used to grow them, but they petered out many years ago.

Gardening is an Experiment

When we are talking about gardening, no two cottage gardens are the same.

Every hardiness zone, every town, every neighborhood, every home…has its own micro-climate.

So what grows well in one garden, may or may not grow well in another.

We don’t know what will work in our gardens until we try it.

Because gardening is one big experiment, I subscribe to the motel theory of gardening.

Have you heard of that theory before?

Dahlias and Roses in the Cottage Garden

Gardening is very similar to a motel.

Plants check-in. If they love the environment, they’ll stay.

my cut flower bed in my jersey garden

Other plants will check-in and not love the micro-climate, so they’ll check out and leave.

And that’s OK.

After deadheading flowers

That doesn’t make us bad plant parents.

Not all plants do well in our micro-climates.

That doesn’t make you a bad gardener.

So in order to learn, it’s important to try new things and stretch your knowledge.

This is what I’m doing this year.

Colorful Cottage Garden at the Garden Shed

So What is a Cottage Garden and How Do You Grow One?

Cottage gardens are really unique.

And the prettiest cottage gardens blend lots of colors, textures, flowers and fragrance really well.

They tend to lack formality because there is less focus on spacing or height graduations.

5 Ways to Grow a Cottage Garden

Cottage gardens typically start with a formal structure like an arbor, birdhouse, fencing, or some other type of hardscaping feature.

But then that structure is softened and accented with amazingly beautiful blooms.

And that’s where the fun begins.

Dahlias are the best fall garden flowers in the Cottage Garden

The Advantages of a Cottage Garden

One of the things that I love about a cottage garden is the ability to express your personal garden style through flowers and foliage.

Grow what you love.

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Combine colors and textures that are pleasing to you.

Some of my best plant combinations happened just by playing around with different colors, textures, and blooms.

It brings me a lot of joy and gives me something to look forward to during the doldrums of winter when I pour of plant catalogs and gardening magazines.

Sedum Autumn Joy are great late blooming summer flowers in the Cottage Garden

No two gardens will ever be the same.

And in fact, even the same garden will look different from year to year.

To me, the biggest advantage is that it does not need to be meticulously maintained.

5 Ways to Grow a Cottage Garden

So it’s totally OK if plants aren’t pristinely manicured or a few weeds pop up.

The cottage garden disguises those imperfections, so it is imperfectly perfect.

And for me, that’s the way I love to garden.

Cafe Au Lait Dahlias in the Cottage Garden

I just love how the dahlias looked this year.

And the more you cut, the more flowers you get!

Front Yard Colorful Cottage Garden on a Walkway
My cottage garden in late summer. Look at those amazing hibiscus blooms!

5 Quick Ways to Grow a Cottage Garden

  • Choose to start in one small area. Then expand your gardens as you gain experience.
  • Start with some structural plants like small evergreen and flowering shrubs and trees. I tend to buy these as young plants so they are easier to manage and plant. Plus if it doesn’t survive, I didn’t spend 10x the price. Yes it takes longer, but it has worked for me.
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  • Add a focal point, such as a birdbath, birdhouse, arbor, bench, chair, fence, paths, or some sort of hardscaping element to plant around.
  • Plant flowers in clumps with lots of color, texture, dimension, and different bloom times. Read the tags so you know what to expect and how to care for them.
  • Repeat plants and colors so the garden flows and your eye is drawn fluidly throughout the bed.
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What Are Cottage Garden Plants

I have many of these, but not all.

Some don’t grow easily in my hardiness zone, so I’m going to try growing them from seed this year.

  • lavender
  • echinacea
  • black-eyed susans
  • dahlias
  • hollyhocks
  • sweet peas
  • delphiniums
  • roses
  • daylillies
  • daisies
  • larkspur
  • pansies
  • scabiosa
  • columbines
  • phlox
  • foxglove
  • butterfly bush
  • iris
  • peonies
  • sedum autumn joy
  • hydrangeas
  • snapdragons
  • strawflowers
  • cosmos
  • forget-me-nots
  • wisteria
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About My Cottage Garden

My cottage garden is grown in New Jersey, Zone 6a.

We have very cold winters here and have the last frost date in mid-May.

And don’t think for one second that last frost date isn’t something you should follow.

Larkspur in my Jersey Garden

Because last year, we had a really bad freeze just before Mother’s Day!

Luckily it didn’t affect my gardens too badly.

You can see how they did HERE.

Cottage Garden by the shed in the backyard

What are cottage garden plants that I grow here in New Jersey are:

Flowers that Bloom in Midsummer

And I just love how my garden continually blooms.

From early spring to late fall, something is always happening.

Dog in the cottage garden

I typically plant my cottage garden with plants found at the nursery.

But my garden has grown from 1 garden to 10 just by dividing my plants and starting new gardens.

And while there is a traditional way to start a new garden, there’s also an easier way to start a garden.

roses in my jersey garden

Tweaking the Garden to Add Cottage Charm

I spent some time this spring after writing this post to add more cottage charm to my backyard garden.

I recently did a complete makeover of my garden shed.

Cutting Garden by the Shed

To add some cottage charm, I added window boxes with flowers, a picket fence, and other garden accents.

So no my garden shed looks like a cute cottage.

I can’t wait for my cut flower garden to grow!

lilac blooms and a garden shed on the happy gardening tour

More Gardening Inspiration

This year, I am going to start different types of flowers from seed like my good friend Kim from Shiplap and Shells does in the PNW.

If you want to see a really pretty cottage garden, check out hers.

It’s truly magical!

Cottage Garden by Shiplap and Shells

Don’t Have a Garden That’s Read to Plant?

Learn how to start a new garden HERE.

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Looking for More Garden Inspiration?

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  1. Great minds think alike. I love a cottage garden!I really enjoyed your thoughts on starting a cottage garden. And thank you for the shout out Stacy! It’s very much appreciated. Aren’t you excited to start gardening again? Can’t wait.

    1. I cannot wait for the 2021 season! I am planning out where I’m going to put the new blooms – I may add some raised beds in the backyard but my resident groundhog may be an issue. I am so excited to get started on this project! We will have fun with it. xoxo

  2. I love gardening and miss the ability to maintain one. In our old home I had beautiful gardens with many wildflowers.

    MS doesn’t give me the ability to have a garden in our new home. However, this fall I was able to visit our backyard physically since we’ve lived here.

    I’m blessed with a new drug. Why am I sharing this? I planted 175 Daffodil bulbs in front of our shed.

    It gave me hope and the ability to plant my favorite spring bulbs.


    1. That’s amazing! I can’t wait to see them come up this year! I planted a bunch too. I hope it keeps helping you feel well Cindy! xoxo

  3. What great photos you have there! And there’s also a surprise picture of the black dog, he’s so cute! Also, I love your garden; it already looks like a park. And the butterfly’s also pretty!

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