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Dreaming of a backyard oasis but don’t know where to start? A well-designed backyard isn’t just a space; it’s an extension of your home, a place for relaxation, entertainment, and connection with nature.

Several years ago, we relocated to an 1850 farmhouse on 10 acres, a dream come true with expansive gardens and outdoor spaces. The bones were there, but making it our own meant furnishing and decorating from scratch.

It was a journey of rediscovering my love for backyard living design, and I’m excited to share what I’ve learned in this complete guide. In this guide, we’ll cover everything from planning your space to creating specific zones, budgeting, sustainability, and avoiding common mistakes.

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1. Planning Your Backyard Living Space: The Essential First Steps

Assessing Your Needs

It’s important to ask yourself the following questions.

  • What activities will you prioritize (dining, relaxing, gardening, etc.)?
  • Who will use the space (family, friends, pets)?
  • What is your budget?

Before you begin transforming your backyard, it’s essential to understand how you intend to use the space and who will be enjoying it. Consider the activities you prioritize. Do you envision hosting lively gatherings with friends and family, requiring a spacious dining area and perhaps an outdoor kitchen? Or do you crave a tranquil retreat for personal relaxation, where you can unwind with a book or practice yoga? Perhaps you’re passionate about gardening and dream of cultivating a vibrant vegetable patch or a colorful flower garden. Understanding these priorities will guide your design choices.

Next, think about who will be using the space. Is it primarily for family use, requiring designated play areas for children and comfortable seating for adults? Do you frequently entertain guests, necessitating ample space for socializing? If you have pets, consider their needs as well, ensuring a safe and secure environment with pet-friendly landscaping. And don’t forget to consider your own personal enjoyment of the space. How will you use it for individual relaxation and pursuing your hobbies?

Finally, establish a realistic budget for your backyard project. Determine how much you can afford to spend, considering both immediate and long-term costs. Prioritize your spending by identifying the most important features and allocating your budget accordingly. Consider DIY projects to save money, and phase your project over time if necessary. Remember to factor in maintenance costs, such as watering, fertilizing, and cleaning, and choose durable materials that will withstand the elements. It is also wise to include a contingency fund for unexpected expenses, as home projects often involve unforeseen costs.

Small pond garden with japanese maple and garden sculptures with blooming azalea and daffodils -37 Backyard Living Space Ideas
Zen garden koi pond with Japanese Maple and Garden Sculpture

Backyard Ideas: Analyzing Your Space

Next, we need to take notes on the type of space we have. Here’s what you need to learn.

  • Size and shape of your yard.
  • Sunlight and shade patterns. (Remember my old deck? It was a sun trap! Understanding your yard’s sunlight patterns is crucial.)
  • Existing features (trees, slopes, etc.).
  • Understand your soil type.

The first step in creating your dream backyard is to thoroughly understand the space you’re working with. Begin by considering the size and shape of your yard. Is it a sprawling expanse or a cozy, compact area? Is it a traditional rectangle, or does it have an irregular shape? These factors will significantly influence your design choices and the types of features you can incorporate.

Next, pay close attention to the sunlight and shade patterns throughout the day. Where does the sun hit in the morning, afternoon, and evening? Are there areas that remain consistently shaded? This is crucial for determining where to place plants, seating areas, and shade structures. As I learned with my old deck, which was a veritable “sun trap,” understanding your yard’s sunlight is paramount. Without proper shade, even the most beautiful space can become unusable during the hottest parts of the day.

Take inventory of your existing features, such as mature trees, slopes, or natural rock outcroppings. These elements can become focal points in your design, adding character and depth to your backyard. For example, a large tree might provide the perfect spot for a shaded seating area, while a slope could be transformed into a terraced garden.

Finally, consider your soil type. Is it sandy, clay, or loamy? This will affect the types of plants you can grow and the drainage of your yard. If you plan on planting, it’s worth conducting a simple soil test to determine its composition and pH level. This knowledge will help you select the right plants and make any necessary soil amendments.

Lilac flowers by the Fire Pit Garden at night lit with solar lanters and surrounded by hostas and twinkle lights
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Creating a Layout

Finally, well want to create the design. Here are a few things to think about before you start laying it all out.

  • Zoning your backyard: Define areas for different activities.
  • Consider traffic flow and accessibility.
  • Conceptual drawings can be very helpful.

With your needs assessed and your space analyzed, it’s time to bring your vision to life by creating a layout. The first step is to consider zoning your backyard. This involves dividing your space into distinct areas for different activities, such as dining, relaxing, gardening, or playing. By clearly defining these zones, you can create a more organized and functional backyard. For example, you might designate a sunny area for a vegetable garden, a shaded corner for a relaxation zone, and a level space for a patio or dining area.

Next, pay close attention to traffic flow and accessibility. Consider how people will move through your backyard and ensure that pathways are wide enough and easily navigable. Think about how you will access different zones and whether there are any obstacles that need to be addressed. For example, if you plan on hosting large gatherings, you’ll want to ensure that there’s ample space for people to move around comfortably.

Finally, conceptual drawings can be very helpful in visualizing your layout. Sketching out your ideas on paper or using a digital design tool can help you see how different elements will fit together and make adjustments before you start any physical work. These drawings can also help you communicate your vision to contractors or family members involved in the project.

close up of the conversation set on the back porch in my outdoor living spaces home tour with houseplants, flowers, sun hat, cozy blankets and mustard colored house

My Backyard Living Journey: Lessons Learned

Over the years, transforming various outdoor spaces has taught me invaluable lessons about creating functional and beautiful backyards. From a sun-drenched deck that was barely usable to reimagining a potager garden, each project has provided insights that I’m eager to share.

One of the most significant lessons I’ve learned is the importance of understanding your space. My experience with the deck that received full sun all day highlighted the need to analyze sunlight patterns before making design decisions. Without proper shade, even a well-designed space can become uncomfortable. This led me to discover the transformative power of shade structures like gazebos, which completely changed how we used our outdoor areas.

Another crucial takeaway is to choose materials wisely. The $50 farmhouse table I refinished taught me that while budget-friendly options are great, they must be able to withstand the elements. Replacing the tabletop with cedar deck boards, a more durable material, ensured that our dining space remained functional and beautiful.

Creating cozy and inviting spaces is also essential. Adding a gas fire pit to our deck transformed it into a gathering spot, and investing in comfortable conversation sets made our outdoor patios more enjoyable. These small changes can significantly impact how often you use your backyard.

Finally, I’ve learned to embrace the evolution of my outdoor spaces. Our potager garden, for example, is constantly evolving as we incorporate new raised beds and dining areas. Being open to change and adapting your design to your changing needs will ensure that your backyard remains a cherished part of your home.

These lessons, learned through trial and error, have helped me create backyards that are not only beautiful but also functional and enjoyable. I hope they inspire you to embark on your own backyard transformation journey.

2. Key Backyard Living Zones & Ideas: Creating Your Outdoor Haven

Backyard Ideas for Outdoor Dining & Entertainment Spaces

  • Build Patios and Decks
  • Design Outdoor Kitchens and Grilling Areas
  • Add Dining Furniture and Lighting
  • Cozy Up With Fire Pits and Fireplaces
  • Entertain with Outdoor bars

Our old deck taught me so much. From a dark, unused space to a multi-level haven, it was all about understanding the space and making it functional. We added a gazebo to the upper deck, and it was a game-changer! It taught me the importance of creating shade in sunny spaces.

I found a $50 farmhouse table on Facebook Marketplace and refinished it. It was perfect until the elements took their toll. Now I know to choose weather-resistant materials! We replaced the top with cedar deck boards that are better suited to the elements.

We added a gas fire pit to our deck, and it completely transformed the space. It’s all about creating that cozy ambiance.

White wicker outdoor furniture with free standing fire pit on deck with white railings and houseplants Outdoor Living Space Home Tour
Before we spruced up the deck
Watching the sunset from the backyard deck with 4 wicker chairs and gas fire pit-backyard living on the lower deck at sunset

Backyard Ideas for Relaxation & Wellness Zones

  • Create Lounging Areas and Hammocks
  • Add Water Features.
  • Include Shade Structures
  • Add Hot tubs and spas.
  • Consider adding Meditation areas.

After moving to our current home, we used this same conversation set on an outdoor patio that overlooks the formal garden. Finding the right conversation set was key to enjoying this space.

Oh and trust me, you want a water feature! I never knew we needed one until we moved here and have two! It’s like having a resort in your own backyard.

I never dreamed we’d have a zen garden and yet here we are! To learn more about creating some zen in your backyard, read this post.

wide angle view of the zen garden with back porch
A serene garden pond surrounded by lush greenery, vibrant flowers, and various trees. The pond features lily pads and a small rock waterfall, creating a tranquil setting. The surrounding area is decorated with rocks and various plants, adding to the peaceful atmosphere.

Backyard Ideas for Gardening & Nature Features

  • Flower Beds and Raised Gardens
  • Vertical gardens and green walls.
  • Trees and shrubs for privacy and shade.
  • Wildlife-friendly gardens.
  • Composting areas.

Every outdoor living space needs a few planters with some gorgeous greenery and flowers. I suggest going with larger vs smaller-sized planters because they retain more moisture so you have to water them less often.

A lush garden with a mix of plants, flowers, and shrubs surrounding a small pond. A stone path winds through the space, leading to a seating area with a statue. A birdhouse is visible amidst the greenery, and a stone border adds structure to the landscape. Backyard zen garden in full bloom.

Backyard Ideas for Play & Recreation Areas

  • Playgrounds and swing sets.
  • Sports courts.
  • Pet-friendly areas.
  • Outdoor games.

Backyard Living Must-Haves

  • Lighting and Ambiance
    • String lights, path lights, and spotlights. You can never have too much twinkle! And solar lights have come a long way.
    • Solar lighting options.
    • Creating a cozy atmosphere. At our current home, there was no shortage of outdoor lighting. We are adding tiki torches for ambiance around the ponds and pool. It’s all about creating that resort feel.
  • Outdoor rugs
  • Outdoor planters: Every outdoor living space needs a few planters with some gorgeous greenery and flowers. I suggest going with larger vs smaller-sized planters because they retain more moisture so you have to water them less often.

You can never have too much twinkle! And solar lights have come a long way. While we have no shortage of outdoor, I love to add more for ambiance. It’s all about creating that resort feel.

A serene outdoor garden setup at dusk with string lights hanging overhead, illuminating a cozy seating area with a table and chairs. Lush green foliage and blooming flowers surround the scene, and a vintage bicycle rests against one side of the garden.

3. Budget-Friendly Backyard Ideas: Making It Accessible

  • DIY projects (pallets, repurposed materials).
  • Affordable furniture and decor.
  • Low-maintenance landscaping.
  • Growing your own food.

DIY projects can be a fantastic way to save money. We’ve built outdoor fire pits and I refinish secondhand furniture to use in our outdoor dining space. Look for affordable furniture and decor, consider low-maintenance landscaping, and even try growing your own food.

Backyard fire pit garden at night with tiki torches and twinkle lights surrounded by hostas with adirondack chairs -Outdoor living space with fire pit fall home tour, with twinkle lights and tiki torches
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Hawaiian theme party idea in the potager garden on a farmhouse table with wicker chairs, white cushions and vintage outdoor area rug, decorated with lots of pinapples, roses, sunflowers and snapdragons with dimly lit tapered candles and votive, lenox dinnerward, pink fuschia napkins and light green bohemian table cloth.

4. Sustainable Backyard Practices: Living Responsibly

  • Water conservation.
  • Composting and recycling.
  • Using eco-friendly materials.
  • Attracting beneficial insects.

Consider water conservation with rain barrels and drought-tolerant plants. Composting and recycling are great for the environment, and using eco-friendly materials is a smart choice. Attract beneficial insects to keep your garden healthy.

A close-up of a field of growing English lavender in bloom. Tall stems with clusters of small purple flowers rise from the green foliage. The background is a soft blur of greenery, giving the image a serene and natural feel.
Lavender flowers

5. Common Backyard Design Mistakes: Learning from Experience

As you pull your outdoor living space together, avoid making these mistakes in the process.

  • Overcrowding the space.
  • Neglecting maintenance.
  • Ignoring the climate. (My sun-drenched deck taught me the importance of understanding the climate.)
  • Poor drainage.
  • Not considering local ordinances.

6. Backyard Ideas FAQs

How Can I Make My Backyard Nicer?

There are a few ways to make the backyard feel more like your own personal outdoor oasis. Here are a few ideas to consider:

  • If you don’t already have one, add an outdoor deck, patio, or porch area.
  • Add texture and dimension to existing outdoor living spaces with an outdoor area rug.
  • Start a new garden. And if you want to start a new garden without breaking your back, try THIS easy method. Or just add a few pretty planters.
  • Decorate outdoor living spaces with accent lighting such as twinkle lights, lanterns, and battery-operated candles.
  • Create stone paths or stepping stone pathways to add cottage garden charm and have easier accessibility to outdoor living spaces.
  • Shade areas that receive full sun with a pergola or gazebo like THIS so you can enjoy the outdoors more often.
  • Add garden decor such as trellis, obelisks, birdhouses, etc. to add more visual interest.
  • To create a relaxing atmosphere, add a water feature such as a pond or fountain.
milk glass vase with zinnias on back porch with lemonade and outdoor wicker furniture

What Time of Year is the Best to Landscape?

While you can landscape anytime during the year as long as the ground is workable, it’s best to do plantings and move things around in early spring or mid-late fall. Summer is too hot to garden and do landscaping chores.

Plants are not fans of being moved around during extreme summer heat. And we should be relaxing in our backyard living spaces anyway. So I vote for no major work in the summer. Are you with me?

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I hope this guide has inspired you to create your dream backyard. Share your own ideas in the comments, explore related blog posts, and don’t forget to subscribe to our newsletter for more outdoor living tips.

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21 Comments

  1. Looks really lovely and functional…always important if you want to use an area. The solar lanterns add their own unique touch. Thanks for sharing!

    1. I couldn’t agree more Linda! I love those lanterns – I have them throughout my yard on shepherd’s hooks.

  2. Love all your ideas, Stacy! Excited for warmer weather to arrive so we can enjoy outdoor living. xo

  3. Your yard and outdoor living spaces are beautiful! Because of the sun, we also had to invest in a pergola. Best investment, ever! Definitely ready for spring/summer and all the sights, sounds and fun they bring! I am also looking forward to planting this year and will continue to follow all your good tips!

  4. I love your inspo and your beautiful spaces. Looking forward to seeing what you do to change things up but I love it the way it is! Even the furniture. Pinned like crazy!

    1. I am so happy to hear that! Thank you! I can’t wait to get outdoors more – we’ve had such a gorgeous week here. Spring is on the way! Yay! xoxo

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  7. I love your home. Can you tell me where you got the fireplace on the lower deck? Possibly the brand and or name of it. Everything in your home and yard is beautiful.

  8. Hi! Stacy, I have a couple of questions about the fireplace you have on your deck. I have wanted to get one to put on our deck. Does the wood on the deck get hot when you have a fire going? Where did you find a smaller fireplace? Thank you for your help!

    1. Hi Mary! That fireplace was open on three sides so we could rarely use it on the deck because there was always a little too much wind. That particular fireplace is better suited for a patio. That’s why we decided to switch to a gas fire pit there instead.

  9. Your outdoor spaces are so beautiful! W cannot wait to get outside again. I bet you are itching to get out to your gorgeous gardens. Hugs to you.